From my former spiritual director, an 80-year-old Jesuit safely ensconced in another city:
How muchdid you have to pay?
Seriously, thank you all for the kind words, here and on FB and via email. It was quite an amazing experience, after these two grueling years, to discover so many people had my back. And welcome, SuzieQ!
I am relieved by the result, but so much more grateful for friends.